Advantages of Having Your Child Learn to Play a Musical Instrument

As a parent and grandparent, I always feel my heart sag a bit when I hear that a youngster has given up on their musical instrument or have dropped out of their choir. I want to take them into my arms and say to them, "Just give it time - you will see how much fun it will bring to your life!" and I think that if they only knew what I knew about music they would never even dream of setting it aside at such an early age.

Now, one may say, "......but, you know, not all of us are good at singing or playing an instrument," and I tell them, "God didn't make music solely for those of us who seem to have a 'knack' for it."

I truly believe that statement. Anything that a child pursues in life requires a certain amount of work, and sometimes, the beginning to intermediate stages of learning to play an instrument are down right frustrating for them and for their loved ones who have to smile and say, "Good job!" and continue to encourage them, even when it's painfully obvious the child will never go beyond the beginner stage. I firmly believe that we need to gently intervene when they want to give up. I say this because there are so many advantages to learning to play an instrument or to sing in a choir...........well, frankly, I don't know how anyone wouldn't agree once they become aware of how advantageous this can be for your child even into adulthood.

I remember going with my mother into the old lunchroom of our elementary. There, Mr. Spillum had an array of bright, shiny instruments laid out across the tables. My heart skipped a beat and my eyes were filled with stars! I could not believe how beautiful the brass instruments shone against their velvet-lined cases. It looked so luxurious. I chose the alto saxophone, I think maybe just because of its intricately laced workings and regal, pearl-covered keys. I was enthralled by it and nearly passed out when my mother said if would work out to buy it. Music and all involved with it is inspiring. It can inspire the most cold of we creatures here on Earth. It can hit us from the side like a rocket, when we least expect it. I have been caught with a tear in my eye and my heart swelling each time I see one of my family exhibit their love of music, either through playing, singing, or just listening to it.

Even though the first stages of learning are difficult, it is important to keep kids involved with music as long as you possibly can. An early development of music appreciation has a far greater affect on a child than you may realize. Although it's not good to "force" them to stay in music, do find ways to make it as fun as possible for as long as possible for them. I have seen many a person draw upon their childhood enjoyment of music later in life and find that their skills just need a bit of dusting off and they're ready to roll.

Hence, we come to the A-#1 advantage to music - it serves as a wonderful leisurely activity, whether you can sing or play a good note or not. You do not have to be a virtuoso or even talented to enjoy music. It is relaxing and it soothes the soul.

Author - Lisa M. Binkley

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